This Women’s Month, one Ekurhuleni mother’s journey is showing South Africa what becomes possible when support arrives at the right moment. Nomfundo Nxumalo, 43, walked into the Theodorah Ndaba Victim Support Centre in Daveyton with her children and nothing but the clothes they were wearing. Today she is a full-time entrepreneur with her own perfume business, a driver’s licence and a stand where she plans to build a family home.
Her story, shared by the Gauteng Department of Social Development through SAnews, has become a powerful example of the life-changing work happening quietly at shelters across the province.
A Safe Place to Land
After seeking a protection order at the Daveyton Magistrate’s Court, Nxumalo was referred to the department, and a social worker placed her at the Theodorah Ndaba centre. Funded by the Gauteng Department of Social Development, the facility offers far more than a roof: residents receive counselling, psychosocial support, therapeutic programmes and skills development designed to help women regain confidence and stand on their own feet.
“The shelter provided for all our basic needs until we exited. While I was at Theodorah Ndaba, we received counselling, therapeutic programmes and a host of other services, including skills development, that helped restore my confidence and prepared me for a new beginning,” Nxumalo recalled.
Skills, Savings and a Fresh Start
With the centre’s backing, Nxumalo obtained her driver’s licence, found employment and was encouraged to save. Rand by rand, she put away R19 500 and bought herself a stand in an informal settlement.
“At the back of my mind, I always had the dream of building a home where my children and I could start a new chapter and have a better future,” she said.
That dream is now firmly in motion. Her perfume business allows her to provide for her family with dignity, and her transformation from someone who needed help to a businesswoman helping herself is exactly the outcome the province’s shelter network exists to create.
A Women’s Month Reminder
The Gauteng Department of Social Development says stories like this one underline why safe spaces matter: they are places where women can heal, learn and access opportunities that lead to real financial independence. The department also praised the social workers, counsellors and community organisations, including the Ekurhuleni Women’s Forum, which recently donated clothing, sanitary towels and toiletries to the centre, for the role they play in restoring hope.
“With the right support, compassion and determination, survivors can become thrivers, building brighter futures for themselves, their children, and their communities,” the department said.
Nxumalo’s new chapter is proof of exactly that, and a reminder this Women’s Month that behind every statistic is a woman capable of extraordinary things when her community stands behind her.
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